Reginald had rules and regulations and restrictions for everything, and Charlie ran away from them because even she was smart enough to see that so much was bad for people. They were bad for all her siblings, all his control and his training. It wasn't a normal childhood, and CHarlie wanted to do something better with herself. Even if that something better turned into making costumes for YouTube videos and money.

But, at least it wasn't listening to old records about climbing and fighting.

"Oh, no. No, none of that whole 'rules' thing. You're the parent. You're the only parent I will accept direction from, and if you ask any of the other siblings, I'm sure a lot of them will agree. Reggie's dead. He has no hold on any of us unless we let him and I refuse to."

Sunshine girl though she may be, she's also completely bullheaded. She won't let anyone tell her what to do. She refuses to let anyone upset or hurt her family. Reginald is just lucky he can't be touched, or there'd have been fire.

...okay, probably not fire, but an attempt to stuff all of the feelings of pain and anger and fear in the house down his throat. She can't do that to a ghost. It sucks. She's tried.